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Originally posted by IUPNation View PostGreek Life to me is paying for friends and living in a death trap frat house.
I didn’t see the point.
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Originally posted by Ship69 View Post
I'm old and have no idea about what the Greek experience is these days. When I was going to school there was a lot of hazing involved in pledging. I was an undersized and socially awkward guy my first couple of years in high school and took plenty of crap there, so I had no desire to take more b.s. in college. I couldn't care less if someone else wants to join a frat or sorority. It's up to them. It appears to work for some people, not so much for others. And when hazing gets to the point where people are actually being physically of psychologically harmed it needs to cease immediately.
The hazing is childish.
Again I saw no point….
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Originally posted by IUPNation View Post
The IUP frat houses on Wayne Ave back in the day all looked like multiple code violations…almost unlivable.
The hazing is childish.
Again I saw no point….
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My fraternity experience was life altering in a positive way. Yeah there was some stupid stuff and some regrets about things we did that didn't age well, but my fraternity was probably 80% good acts and 20% frat boy stupid stuff. Done by the book, there's not an experience like it at a college. But the lack of meaningful adult advisement and the 21 drinking age created a role for many fraternities to assume the role of speakeasy for 19 year olds. Fortunately hazing is illegal in PA and may soon be a federal crime. I think most people would be shocked at the formal behind the scenes (secret) stuff that's not really any different from the local fraternal lodge in most communities.
My wife's sorority experience was very different for different reasons.
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Originally posted by Fightingscot82 View PostMy fraternity experience was life altering in a positive way. Yeah there was some stupid stuff and some regrets about things we did that didn't age well, but my fraternity was probably 80% good acts and 20% frat boy stupid stuff. Done by the book, there's not an experience like it at a college. But the lack of meaningful adult advisement and the 21 drinking age created a role for many fraternities to assume the role of speakeasy for 19 year olds. Fortunately hazing is illegal in PA and may soon be a federal crime. I think most people would be shocked at the formal behind the scenes (secret) stuff that's not really any different from the local fraternal lodge in most communities.
My wife's sorority experience was very different for different reasons.
Greek Life/parties at Clarion is dead because the frats are non existent, just 3 groups of 8 losers without a house to throw parties in. The sororities are boring, follow the book, and don't throw parties even though one of them has a huge house. Last year, a house full of guys tried to ignite the fire with a "fake frat" that got off the ground and people enjoyed it until the police shut down party after party after party and soon it was dead. Its just sad. If you want a real college experience, go to Pitt or Penn State.
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Originally posted by SecretlySavage View Post
I wasn't in a frat myself but many of my close friends were at Duquesne, Pitt, and Marietta. What goes on behind the scenes is crazy, especially at larger or more southern schools. My girlfriend is the President of her sorority at Clarion and its so much different from being in a frat. Being in a sorority sounds like hell tbqh. She runs everything so I hear everything, and its just piles and piles of drama mixed with lazy college girls who don't get the events and activities planned or set up. I cant tell you how many weekends Ive had to help her set up a sorority event that she wasn't supposed to have anything to do with because one of the girls on that activity committee was "feeling overwhelmed" or "had a bad week". Doesn't matter if that's the case, you gotta get it done either way, you signed up for it. Most of the time its not even true, they just didn't finish their homework or something.
Greek Life/parties at Clarion is dead because the frats are non existent, just 3 groups of 8 losers without a house to throw parties in. The sororities are boring, follow the book, and don't throw parties even though one of them has a huge house. Last year, a house full of guys tried to ignite the fire with a "fake frat" that got off the ground and people enjoyed it until the police shut down party after party after party and soon it was dead. Its just sad. If you want a real college experience, go to Pitt or Penn State.
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Originally posted by WarriorVoice View Post
These days the college experience is much more than Greek life. Student-athletes are becoming the largest fraternity on many campuses. At ESU student-athletes have a better GPA than the rest of the student population.
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Originally posted by Fightingscot82 View Post
Any group that has mandatory study halls tends to have above average GPAs. Also that whole 2.0 to play thing helps a lot.
It's a far cry from what I was told when I attended Ship freshman indoctrination in the '60s: "Look to the left of you, look to the right of you. One of those persons will not be here in four years." And that was pretty much true.
My 3.4 GPA at Ship put me into the top five percent of the class when I graduated then. I don't know if that would even be in the top half now.
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Originally posted by Ship69 View Post
Grade inflation is a student;s friend these days. The most common grade given at colleges these days is an "A." Colleges today are in a death race to retain students. The last thing they want to do if they can help it is academically disqualify anyone. If you have half a brain and make any sort of effort, you're unlikely to flunk out of college once you're admitted.
It's a far cry from what I was told when I attended Ship freshman indoctrination in the '60s: "Look to the left of you, look to the right of you. One of those persons will not be here in four years." And that was pretty much true.
My 3.4 GPA at Ship put me into the top five percent of the class when I graduated then. I don't know if that would even be in the top half now.
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Originally posted by Fightingscot82 View Post
I wouldn't go that far but yeah it takes some effort to fail out anymore. Deliberate indifference and not going to class. Most kids leave PASSHE schools because of money. Failing out or giving up because of academic reasons is #3 after financial and transfer to another school.
Of course in the '60s you were an idiot to be indifferent to your studies as a male student, because if you failed out the government might decide to plan an expenses-paid trip to a certain destination in Southeast Asia for you.
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Originally posted by Ship69 View Post
Well, teach a course from high school on up these days and try to give a student a "C" grade or lower in anything, and see what happens. One of the problems is that a lot of kids coast through high school and arrive at college badly unprepared to do serious academic work. There's a reason you see first-year college adjustment courses at many schools today.
Of course in the '60s you were an idiot to be indifferent to your studies as a male student, because if you failed out the government might decide to plan an expenses-paid trip to a certain destination in Southeast Asia for you.
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Originally posted by Ship69 View Post
Well, teach a course from high school on up these days and try to give a student a "C" grade or lower in anything, and see what happens. One of the problems is that a lot of kids coast through high school and arrive at college badly unprepared to do serious academic work. There's a reason you see first-year college adjustment courses at many schools today.
Of course in the '60s you were an idiot to be indifferent to your studies as a male student, because if you failed out the government might decide to plan an expenses-paid trip to a certain destination in Southeast Asia for you.
Forrest Gump
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Originally posted by Fightingscot82 View Post
The older I get the more I think a peacetime draft or compulsory military service for those able-bodied and not working or studying full-time would do our country good. The lack of self-discipline and life experience most 18-25 year olds have is staggering.
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